Hi. I'm an older chub, who has been chubby since his late twenties many decades ago. After years of enduring the negativity found so often in the US LGBTQ community towards those who aren't twinks or muscle jocks, I left in 2006 and have never looked back. The most accepting and loving men I found were in the Middle East, followed closely by Turkey, South Africa and the UK. Russia and the Netherlands and Greece (where I currently live) are also far less discriminatory and much more appreciative than the US. Germany is also more tolerant, as is Switzerland and Austria. Generally, I don't plan to return to the US - the ageism and hatred towards non-conforming bodies is disgusting and cruel - no wonder the suicide rate among young gays there is so alarmingly high.
 
I'm a chubby bearish bottom guy and I've always liked my physical opposite even before I knew what a chubby chaser was. Add to it being attracted to hugely hung men and it definitely hasn't made dating easy! As a friend once rudely said, "Oh, that's right... you like those anorexic ones." That's not completely true, though; I prefer skinny guys but I don't have any set "type." (Other than them being a top.)
I've been lucky enough to date and sleep with men as big as 11 inches, but they're few and far between--especially the ones who find big guys like myself attractive. But I'm always trying to stay optimistic that there are insanely hung men out there who I might stand a chance with. lol
 

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Chubby tops are the best, especially if they're 7" or longer. I'm prone on my stomach, having the top mount me and rest on my back is the best feeling. The weight, feeling of overwhelm, and pure carnal nature of their humping sends me over the top.